66: Stop Mindless Numbing: How to Choose Intentional Rest & Joy
Are You Chronically Numbing?
We've all been there: exhausted, stressed out, and reaching for a quick hit of dopamine — whether it's scrolling, eating, or binge-watching Netflix. These are numbing behaviours, and they feel good because they take the edge off our uncomfortable feelings when life gets rough.
The truth is, we've been conditioned in modern adulthood to prioritize productivity and success over our well-being. This leaves us with nothing at the end of the day or week, making numbing our only option.
The big problem with numbing, though, is that you can't selectively numb emotions. When we numb the hurt, fear, or frustration, we also numb the joy, gratitude, and love.
Now, I don't want you to get rid of numbing altogether, but I want to help you take control so you can intentionally choose when to use it, and have plenty of other healthy options for rest and play to truly help you de-stress and live in the moment.
What you'll discover today:
How to check if you're judging yourself when you rest, and recognize that taking care of yourself is essential, not just "nice"
When to be mindful of when you're numbing (scrolling, eating, drinking) to stop letting your unconscious brain drive the bus
Discover what you really need — if you're frustrated, address the problem; if you are tired, prioritize rest; if you're lonely, connect with others
Changing chronic numbing habits starts with believing that your feelings and body needs are important throughout the day, not just when you have time
A simple body scan strategy to help you check in on your needs and replace typical numbing behaviours with "net positive" activities
Timstamps:
00:00 Why We Numb
02:20 Childhood Clues
04:48 The Cost of Numbing
05:48 Stop Self-Judgement
07:37 Notice Your Triggers
09:25 Meet the Real Need
11:37 Body Scan Check Ins
12:18 Choose Net Positive Comfort
14:56 Build a Sustainable Rhythm
16:23 Final Thoughts and Contact
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