33: Parenting Stress Tests: Finding Growth in Back-to-School Season
"It's the most wonderful time of the year!"
These are the sentiments from many parents as their kids head back to school. But for some, it's not quite the best time of the year.
Here in Canada, the weather hasn't been cooperating. Though of course, as Canadians, we know we can get fresh air in any weather with the appropriate clothing.
Barring the rainy summer weather, some of the clients I've been talking with are feeling:
Stressed from summer vacations and having to change plans while navigating the pressure to make everyone happy
Overwhelmed with planning when things don’t work out “perfectly”
Challenged by the tests of parenting, from entertaining young kids to changing roles and becoming more of a coach and mentor to your older kids
Even if you've been having some challenges over the summer, these are actually a positive thing. We can learn some essential lessons from the ups and downs of parenting, co-parenting, and life with our families.
Consider it a stress test for your family and your life.
Key takeaways from today's episode of The Overwhelm Cure:
How to reframe difficult summer moments as opportunities to learn and adjust your parenting strategies.
Evaluating what's actually fun for ALL your family members. Chances are—simple might be better.
How to think intentionally about your guiding principles, values, and goals for your kids' childhoods.
Why it's okay to let struggles happen—while it's uncomfortable, this is how kids learn and grow.
The importance of taking time to recognize and grieve the shifts in identity that come with kids gaining independence, getting their driver’s licenses, and even moving out to go to college.
Being okay with the imperfect moments—focus on managing your thoughts and stress response so you can be a good role model for your kids.
Most of all, make sure you're taking the time to look after yourself. Take the time to care for your body and mind, and stay connected to what you truly want.
Remember, it takes a village to raise kids. We were never meant to parent alone. It’s okay to ask for support.
Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome to Back-to-School Season
00:56 Summer Parenting Challenges
02:41 Stress Tests and Parenting Insights
05:42 Traveling with Kids: Lessons Learned
07:48 Simplifying Family Vacations
13:02 Reflecting on Parenting through Your Childhood
15:31 Parenting Plans and Values
20:54 Identity Shift as Kids Grow More Independent
24:56 Final Thoughts on Parenting & Invitation to Seek Support
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