23: Rewire Your Brain with Celebrations
I've been thinking a lot about celebrations. This week, my oldest daughter graduated from high school.
We had a blast celebrating with dinners and ceremonies, but it got me thinking about why we only focus on the big stuff.
Why not celebrate the little victories, too?
We often get so caught up in our daily tasks and to-do lists that we forget to acknowledge our achievements, big or small. We check things off and move on. Sometimes, we even raise the bar without taking a moment to mark our success in getting there.
Skipping the small celebrations can even lead to overwhelm and burnout.
We celebrate our kids and pets for all their little accomplishments, so why don't we do this for ourselves?
When we celebrate, our brains release dopamine, that awesome feel-good neurotransmitter that boosts our mood and motivation. Even a little 10-second acknowledgment with a deep breath and a smile can make a difference.
We need to rewire our brains to focus on the positive outcomes, not just the stress and our never-ending to-do lists. And honestly, sometimes we resist celebrating because it feels like extra effort, right? Like planning something or even just taking the time to pat ourselves on the back might feel like more work than we have time for, but it's SO worth it!
So, I'm challenging myself (and you, too!) to celebrate more, especially the seemingly small things. Celebrate waking up on time, making a great dinner, or even simply setting a boundary.
Let's bring more "sparkles" or "glimmers" into our lives by celebrating more everyday moments.
5 Key Takeaways:
All celebrations — even the small ones release dopamine and boost our moods, making us feel good!
Acknowledging our achievements helps rewire our brains to focus on positive outcomes.
Simple acts like journaling our wins, sharing accomplishments with people we love, or taking a moment for reflection can be powerful celebrations that add up over time.
Shifting from focusing on what we haven't done to celebrating what we have done creates a more joy-filled life.
Life gives us opportunities to learn and grow in the form of challenges, and sometimes, when we're feeling particularly challenged and we have a success, it can feel even sweeter.
Small Practices to Try:
Start a daily wins journal and write down at least 3 things you've accomplished each day.
Share your small wins with a friend or family member to amplify the joy (which helps create more!)
Treat yourself for small victories, even if it's just a relaxing bath or your favorite snack (for me, it's Hershey's Kisses)
Create a small celebration ritual, like lighting a candle or playing a favorite song and dancing.
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